Online Couples Workshop for Lesbians–“Hold Me Tight®”

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You love her and you want to be with her. So why do things feel so hard at times? Both of you make promises to change…to do things differently. But the same arguments keep happening again and again…different topic, but the same fight.

When things are good, they are great

When you two are doing well, it’s amazing and wonderful. How would it be to be able to sustain and nurture that?

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Imagine looking into your partner’s eyes…feeling seen and heard by her.

Feeling…no…KNOWING that she has your back. Experiencing that connection like she is truly a part of you.

You have the right woman, you just need the right tools

I have been a couples therapist for over 20 years and I have seen that many couples do not need therapy. Often times, couples just need better tools.

Two lesbians in a healthy relationship after attending a Hold Me Tight Workshop for Lesbians with TLC.

It’s not always about digging into the past and analyzing the relationship.

Sometimes, it’s just about learning about relationships and practicing new tools to make your relationship better.

But how?

Online Hold Me Tight® Workshops for Lesbian Couples

Upcoming Dates:

None scheduled currently as I assess the viability of an ‘in-person’ workshop in addition to online.

Need something soon or want it just for you two?

Contact me to discuss a Private Retreat or to be informed of my next Workshop.

As a lesbian relationship coach, I help you during the Workshop with:

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— The science behind falling in love and sustaining it.

— The relationship patterns we get stuck in.


— Reducing conflicts.

— Repairing injuries and betrayals.

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— Understanding and hearing your partner’s longings and fears.

— Increasing emotional and physical intimacy.

You practice the relationship tools

Throughout our two days together, you will have eight private conversations with your partner. During those, you get actual practice and apply the tools we have been discussing.

And I help you succeed

To make sure you are staying on track, I spend some time with you in your private virtual ‘room’ during each conversation. (I limit the Workshop to three couples to ensure I can interact with all couples).

Why online?

Your Time for an Escape

You can do this Workshop anywhere you have a consistently strong internet connection. You and your partner can ‘escape’ to the destination of your choice, yet still work on your relationship.

Lesbians are Everywhere

I work with lesbian couples both nationally and internationally. Not everyone is able to travel to my location. Effective Workshops shouldn’t be limited only to the women in the big cities.

She is so so Far Away

Finding the ‘right’ woman can be tough and I realize many of you are in long distance relationships. Even if you can’t be in the same location, you can still attend this together.

Worried about too much screen time?

I would too. Due to that, I balance my Workshops between information, video clips, interactions and your practice time.

Wondering how much you will share with the other couples?

That’s up to you! I present to the group; that is an opportunity to share but you are never pushed to express if you do not want to.

A lesbian Couples Workshop that is based on science

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The Hold Me Tight® Workshop protocol is designed around the framework of Emotionally Focused Couples therapy. EFT has been shown to have a 90% success at reducing distress in couples. This Workshop for lesbian couples packages the concepts, tools and skills of EFT into a weekend format.

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Create a lesbian Escape and let me help you connect and communicate like never before

So go ahead and get away for the weekend. Pick a beautiful spot you can enjoy while working with me. ‘Escape’ together and improve your relationship or marriage while you are at it!

Still not sure?

No worries! This is an investment of time, money, and emotional energy. I want to support you doing what is ‘right’ for you.

No matter what you decide, I want you to succeed!

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Let’s talk!

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Helping Lesbians Locally From Boston to NYC or Online as far as San Francisco!

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